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lycheefan
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question about fingering

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ok i thought of this question a while back and realized i never understood why this happened but like.. before losing my virginity fingering felt good but after losing it fingering doesnt really feel like anything :C i dont know if theres a link between the two or not
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Re: question about fingering

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Hi lycheefan,

There's nothing out there that would mean manual sex stops feeling good once you have vaginal sex. That being said, what feels good to our bodies can change over time, and sometimes when we find new, sexual sensations that feel really good (or that are very new to us), ones we previously liked may not feel like much anymore. Does that make sense?
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