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Thanks to EMDR, I’ve been slowly putting myself back out there dating-wise after a rough breakup that happened earlier this year. Problem is, I’m scared of being bad at sex given that 1. It’s been a long time (think several years) since I’ve slept with anyone and 2. I don’t have a ton of experience.
I know it’s irrational, but I guess some part of me thinks maybe I shouldn’t put myself out there and meet new potential partners since “If I’m bad at sex, they’ll leave me anyway”. Again, I know it’s not rational to feel that way, but I don’t want this fear to keep me from connecting with someone new, you know?
Not sure how to handle this, but any advice or insight is much appreciated. Thanks in advance!