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JaneL36324
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mom walked in on me masturbating

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My mom walked in on me masturbating, i had a blanket over me and she didn't notice, but it felt weird (She was getting something) What should i do so that doesn't happen again?
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Re: mom walked in on me masturbating

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Hi there, and welcome to the boards.

Is not knocking on doors when y'all go into them a norm in your family? If so, are you comfortable just saying that you feel like you're starting to need more privacy when it comes to your body, and would like anyone who wants to come into your room to knock first?
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Re: mom walked in on me masturbating

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Sometimes they knock sometimes they don't, so it is unpredictable if she is, im learning to hear footsteps so im able to quicky put clothes back on though.
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Re: mom walked in on me masturbating

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So, how about you ask them if they can be more mindful about knocking?
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Re: mom walked in on me masturbating

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I did and she said she would thank you so much for helping!
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Heather
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Re: mom walked in on me masturbating

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That's great. Always nice when something is so easy! :)
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