Peeing while using a vibrator

[Plants]

So, I've never been interested in anything sex related until about 2 weeks ago when I bought a vibrator just to see what it was like. I found out that it is actually very enjoyable mainly around my clit area, but every time I think I'm getting close to having an orgasm I start to pee myself. I've tried going to the bathroom before using my vibrator, but it doesn't work. Is this normal? I didn't even know what a clit was until about a month ago so I'm very new to all of this. Any information would be greatly appreciated.

[Nicole]

Hi Plants,

Welcome to the boards! So, this is not uncommon at all. We actually have an article that is sort of similar to what you are experiencing, I'll link it here: It feels like I have to pee during sex. Do I have a problem? It gives an idea of what's going on from an anatomical perspective. Please let me know if it clears anything up for you or if you have any questions! I do have a question for you if you feel comfortable answering, do you end up having an orgasm as you pee or does the tension completely go away? Maybe we can look into this if you want. Take care!

[Plants]

Thanks for the link, usually when I start to pee, I'll stop because I don't want to make a mess even with a towel, but the few times I've kept going the tension didn't go away. I don't know what an orgasm is supposed to feel like, so I don't know if I've had one.

[Carly]

Hey Plants -- this resource might help explain that.