some more misc questions

[SillyMcGoof_]

hi! i have a few more questions i wanted to ask!

1) is it ok if i dont like penetration? even when im pretty sure im aroused when i try to insert a finger it hurts and is generally just uncomfortable and i definitely prefer external genital stimulation. maybe im just not aroused enough? idk but is this ok? i just feel weird bc alot of people seem to like it and i just feel like it’s weird for me to not like it

2) pls lmk if an ask like this isn’t allowed or if its just a weird ask, but is there anywhere where i can find nsfw of specifically pre op pre t transmascs? or just generally people with small clits (or whatever terminology they prefer)? the reason why i ask this is because seeing only transmascs with big clitorises/t-dicks/etc kinda gets me down a bit when it comes to my own anatomy, as i have a very small clitoris that im pretty sure isn’t even that visable when aroused (although im still new to all this so i could be thinking im aroused when im actually not, or just not fully aroused if that makes sense) and i kinda wanna find nsfw content of people that have anatomy a bit more similar to my own so then i can feel a bit less alone and less ashamed. please lmk if anything i said here is at all weird or just generally not great as i myself am not sure.


thanks!! :)

[Nicole]

Hello!

1) Yes, it's absolutely okay not to like penetration. Enjoyment of particular sexual activities varies from person to person, so there is nothing unusual about not enjoying it. If inserting a finger is painful, it could be that you are not aroused enough. When that is the case, many people turn to use lube. We have some resources on lube and can share them with you if you'd like. Also, people's interests in particular sexual activities can change over time, so you might end up enjoying penetration later on. Either way, it's all okay.

2) I understand, but we do not share NSFW content like that with our users, especially those who are underage. This would fall under distributing pornography to minors, which is illegal.

[SillyMcGoof_]

ohh ok thanks! also yeah i get it, i kinda forgot about that so thats my bad, my apologies!!

[Nicole]

No worries!