Sex
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Blacknikesock
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Sex
Me and my boyfriend have sex a lot recently while doing doggy he has been playing with my clit and it makes my legs shake it’s really good however he said it’s hot when girl play with themselves so I’ve tried to do it and it just feels like I’m touching a body part. Idk what to do cause it feels so good when he does it but nothing when I do.
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Sam W
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Re: Sex
Hi Blacknikesock,
So, one of the wild things about bodies (and brains) is that how a type of touch feels can vary depending on who's doing the touching. That could be what's going on here, especially if you already tried matching the movements or pressure he uses and still found it doesn't feel like much.
Given that, do you feel like you can just tell him "hey, this isn't feeling like much for me, so can we try something else?"
So, one of the wild things about bodies (and brains) is that how a type of touch feels can vary depending on who's doing the touching. That could be what's going on here, especially if you already tried matching the movements or pressure he uses and still found it doesn't feel like much.
Given that, do you feel like you can just tell him "hey, this isn't feeling like much for me, so can we try something else?"
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.