Some questions I have

[CatMatRat99]

I had some questions:
1.can I use lotion as lube it's been portrayed in the media as so?
2.how come I have a higher libido at night?
3.how come I've never ejaculated? I understand masturbation dosnt mean Seman but still

[Sam W]

Hi CatMatRat99,

Yes, you can use lotion as lube during masturbation. You just want to make sure it's one you know doesn't irritate your skin.

As for you interest in sex at different times of day, some people do notice that they may have a spike in desire at a certain time, and there are a bunch of things that can influence that. For instance, part of what might be happening for you is that you're more relaxed in the evenings, which some people find can lead to an easier time becoming aroused.

With ejaculation, if you've reached orgasm during masturbation, what generally happens when you do?

[CatMatRat99]

I usely tremble after reaching that

[Sam W]

Got it. Do you notice yourself producing pre-ejaculate? Or do you seem to produce neither?

[CatMatRat99]

neither really

[Sam W]

Got it. So, some people do experience "dry orgasms" where they reach orgasm but produce little or no ejaculate. If you're sure what's happening is orgasm and you never ejaculate during it, it might be worth checking in with a healthcare provider to see if there's an underlying cause that needs to be addressed.