What exactly constitutes attraction
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Laayiv
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What exactly constitutes attraction
Is it just looking at something and that making you horny, or does it require wanting to do something to/with it?
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Sam W
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Re: What exactly constitutes attraction
Hi Laayiv,
I would say that the general understanding is closer to the first thing you said. That when someone is experiencing sexual attraction, they're noticing that seeing or being around a person is making them feel arousal. That may or may not include the desire to actually act on that arousal.
I would say that the general understanding is closer to the first thing you said. That when someone is experiencing sexual attraction, they're noticing that seeing or being around a person is making them feel arousal. That may or may not include the desire to actually act on that arousal.
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