I have never been able to finger myself.

[kk0708]

I,ve had the same exact problem as you. Are there any tips or help regarding this topic.

[Latha]

Hi kk0708, welcome to the boards!

Since you're having the same issues as Leviwig0607, have any of the responses in this thread seemed helpful to you?

[kk0708]

Yes, I do believe that I have tendency to think negatively which prevents me and makes me feel nervous to masturbate. It does feel painful sometimes as well, and as Leviwig0607 said I feel exhausted and stop after trying to feel anything pleasurable while masturbating. Also I would like to discuss about the P.S comment you had send last about being overstimulated. Thank you

[Sam W]

Hi kk0708,

I split your thread off from this one (viewtopic.php?t=13239) so it could be its own conversation!

We're happy to talk about how to approach overstimulation while masturbating. Can you tell me about more about it? Does it have to do with the sensations in a specific body part? Something about the environment you're trying to masturbate in? Something else?

Too, you do want to tell me a bit more about those negative thoughts that are leading to the nerves around masturbating? Do they have to do with masturbation itself, or with something else?