I’m confused about why my labia looks the way it does

[Starcastlegirl]

Hi! Ever since i started middle school and was introduced to porn, i have always felt insecure about the size of my labia. I am still a virgin while all my friends talk about their hook ups or whatever and I wish I could lose it too maybe? Idk. I’m insecure bc my labia is big and looks wrinkly and darker towards the bottom. Please explain idk thank you

[Jacob]

Hi starcastlegirl!

The way people's labia looks is suuuuuper diverse and everything you describe sounds well within the variation we see from person to person. This is true of lots of body parts, like how often have you really compared a couple people's ears, there's a lot of variation between all of us.

Have you checked this piece out by any chance: Give 'em Some Lip: Labia That Clearly Ain't Minor... there's more on this topic in there if you want to delve deeper.