Mixed feelings using toys

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Re: Mixed feelings using toys

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That's certainly a good point. If I may ask, do your parents or brother ever go into your closet or go through your laundry? Is there a time when you can privately wash those items and store them back in your closet?
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Re: Mixed feelings using toys

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My mother sometimes go in it to see if I have old clothes that don't fit me anymore. And I could hide them when I do my laundry, but I need to be here to do it. And I only have times the weekends...
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Re: Mixed feelings using toys

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To be fair, items like bras and panties are delicate anyway, so you could wash them by hand in the bathroom privately. But it also might be something to put a pin on for now and come back to later, perhaps for now you could have a conversation with your mom about boundaries (such as not going through your room/closet items unannounced or without permission). Regardless it is important to have some privacy with personal belongings, ya know?
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Re: Mixed feelings using toys

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I know, but I can't really be sure she wouldn't go in it while I'm at school... The only place I know is safe is the same box as my dildos... But it would be hygienic to use the same box...
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Re: Mixed feelings using toys

Unread post by Ellie »

Hi Sarxzer,

I think that Sofi had a great idea to wash them privately. If you keep your toys clean, they could stay in the same box, or you could even put them inside of a bag.
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Re: Mixed feelings using toys

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Yeah cleaning them by hand is a good idea. And yes I can use a bag to store them, I didn't think of it. Thanks
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Re: Mixed feelings using toys

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Happy to help!
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