I can't insert my finger in..?

[Evengeline]

umm hi I'm evengeline and I'm 16....I also do fingering sometimes when I'm turned on. But I can't insert my fingers in I'm really sacred to insert it...as I have read there is a part which is very thin and if it like tear or something it bleeds and all I'm really scared about that.. I tired to insert it but before I can I remember that and I get sacred if I will bleed or I'll get hurt...I tried many times but that's stopping me from moving forward..my other friends enjoy while inserting their fingers but I'm sacred and I can't.. Is there any way I can insert it but will it hurt or will I bleed?..

[maille]

Hi, Evengeline and welcome to the boards.

There are so many ways to masturbate, and inserting fingers is just one method. As for not being able to fit a finger inside the vagina, I want to ask you how you are feeling when you are attempting this. Are you scared, aroused, etc? The vagina will allow for more to enter it when you are aroused, lubricated and comfortable. And all three of those go hand in hand!

If you are curious about stimulating more than just the internal part of the anatomy, this article may help out.

As for bleeding, you worries might be quelled by reading this one, which explains that bleeding is uncommon, but when it happens it is often due to a lack of lubrication.

P.S. I don't want you to try inserting fingers, unless it truly appeals to you, not just because it works for some other people. Like I said, there are so many ways to play solo style.