name your sexy (non-sex) summer activity!

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name your sexy (non-sex) summer activity!

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I recently got asked what is my sexiest summer activity that is not sex related?

I answered quickly with swimming because it was the first thing that came to mind and because it has always felt so flowy and relieving and sexy to me. Then when I got home, I remembered that I have been dressing up for myself and I was bummed I didn't get to share that because it's been really fun to feel gorgeous for no one but me. So I'm sharing here and asking the boards: what has been your sexiest summer activity?
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Re: name your sexy (non-sex) summer activity!

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I love this question. Being in a river (swimming, standing, wading, floating) is what comes to mind first. But summer fruits- especially stone fruits, and especially right off a tree, are such a sexy part of summer.
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Mikky, I love the stone fruit answer!
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Hello! Very interesting question. I'm not sure how sexy this is, but my sexiest summer activity so far is getting a glass of iced matcha latte with a dash of espresso~ :D
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Char, I see you! That sounds refreshing and indulgent and those are two words I definitely feel go with a sexy vibe.
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Oh, sitting in a stream! I love that! I go up into the mountains sometimes on hot summer days, and I discovered this crystal-clear stream way off the trail that curves around an open meadow of tall grass and wildflowers, and I just sit there in the water.

Just to feel the cool clarity of it flowing around my back, and the bottom is all multicolored pebbles.

There are these tiny silvery fish that gather in the mild turbulence in front of my body, and they actually gently peck at my stomach.

Every time I've been there I've had the place all to myself, and I just sit there and daydream with the hot sun on my back and listen to the birds off in the trees.

My secret spot.
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Re: name your sexy (non-sex) summer activity!

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That sounds so relaxing and fun! Great answer fudnuk.

Even just the sounds of a river in the summer, and the cooler air by the bank are such nice sensations, especially to enjoy by yourself! Fantastic day-dreaming spot.
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