why is being gay so stressful

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aliengirl
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why is being gay so stressful

Unread post by aliengirl »

like i know societal pressures and stuff but damn i really feel like i have no future

prolly cuz am lazy betch heh

like every time i hear that one statistic about homeless lgbtq teenagers i feel like its gonna be me

good friggin new cuz u got a job and stuff so im #employed

anywayz not feeling sudocider or anything dont worry folks

i didjt. evej choose to b gay this is unfair and girls are friggin mean like 2/3 of the time

like are my parents half gay or sum is it recessive genes something or wut

i wish conversion therapy was real so i could stop having my bowel movements ruined by gay anxiety (i just know some resesrcher coined the term gay anxietfu$))))
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Re: why is being gay so stressful

Unread post by char »

Hi aliengirl, happy to see you back here. I'm sorry to hear that you've been having a rough time--know that you're not alone. As a queer person living in a sociopolitically conservative country, I can definitely relate to your frustration. Please let us know how we can best help you with these feelings. :(
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