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iceglacier
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Unread post by iceglacier »

Hey, I tried to read some articles that you guys wrote, but I didn't quite find the answer to relieve my stress.

So basically, my girlfriend and I masturbated together 6 hours ago (at 8:00 AM UTC). She went first, and then it was my turn. After I ejaculated, I got scared because I thought my sperm might have gotten onto her panties. Before she put them back on, we cleaned up for about a minute. However, I'm still not sure if any semen hit her panties or not. Because its sperm, Im getting anxious that it might get her pregnant.

What do you guys think?
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Re: Scared

Unread post by mikky »

Hi iceglacier,
If you checked out some of our articles about pregnancy risk, you might have seen us explaining that sperm cells are quite fragile. They cannot survive through a barrier like underwear. If you ejaculated and some semen got on to the outside of her underwear, that would not be a risk for pregnancy.
In other words, You cannot become pregnant when you have pants on.

Please check out this article to better understand how pregnancy does happen, so you can understand why this is not a risk: Human Reproduction: A Seafarer's Guide
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Re: Scared

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Thankyou, but what if its inside the underwear?
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Re: Scared

Unread post by Sofi »

There's no risk unless your penis was inside her underwear and the ejaculate went directly into her vaginal opening and inside her, which doesn't sound like that's what happened. As Mikky explained, sperm is super fragile and doesn't really survive long outside its optimal environment. From your first post, it sounds like you might have gotten some semen onto her underwear that she then ended up putting back on. Did you get a chance to read the articles we sent?
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