Why can't I think about anything while I masturbate?

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Why can't I think about anything while I masturbate?

Unread post by MRIemon »

So whenever I masturbate I can't seem to think of anything while I do and i don't know why.
I would like to think about stuff but whenever I start masturbating my brain just blanks I still like masturbating but its kind of annoying yknow?
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Re: Why can't I think about anything while I masturbate?

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Hi there, MRlemon

I do see how that would be frustrating. By my estimation, it is also not that unusual--holding on to and developing engaging fantasies can be hard to do all on your own. A lot of the time, people rely on their memories or on sexual media to give them something to think about while they masturbate.

I'd like to share an article of ours that you might like to read: How to Approach Sexual Fantasy and Desire on Your Own Terms

Do you already have fantasies that you enjoy? Have you had experiences or found things in fiction that are interesting to you?
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