Overstimulation

[icecreamqueen3]

Is it normal for a vibrator to cause overstimulation like i feel it building up in like a few seconds and then it becomes uncomfortable but any lighter touch feels like nothing do you have any suggestions thanks

[KierC]

Hey icecreamqueen,

I’d be happy to help talk through this with you, but I do need to address an issue with our user guidelines first. We can see that you’re posting on the boards from two different accounts, so we’ll need you to choose one account to stick to and shut the other one down before we continue. You can re-read our user guidelines here if needed! https://www.scarleteen.com/about/user-g ... acy-policy

[icecreamqueen3]

This account i wanna use

[Becky]

Thanks for clarifying that, icecreamqueen3!

To answer your question, yes, some people can find direct contact with a vibrator on their clitoris overstimulating. If it feels like a bit too much, you can always try using your vibrator while wearing underwear or pants to put a layer between the vibrator and your genitals. Another thing to try is to use the vibrator on your vulva (around your clitoris) instead of directly on your clitoris, and see how that feels.

Take your time and do a little exploration!

[icecreamqueen3]

Okay thank you

[Becky]

You're welcome!

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