my body jerks when I masturbate?

[kitkatk8]

whenever I use my rose toy I get this feeling where like I’m about to pee and it builds to the point where my body starts jerking like I can’t stay still. I either have to stop from overstimulation or it dies down.

Idk what this means or what to do but I’ve never been able to orgasm or get close to it before.

After I stop I can feel my clit pulsing so clearly the stimulation is working to some extent but I can’t ever get close to an orgasm.

Plss give tips

[KierC]

Hi KitKat!

The involuntary muscle spasms you’re describing are actually consistent with how many folks experience orgasm, so it’s likely you could be experiencing an orgasm. We have a helpful description of orgasm in this article here: Sexual Response & Orgasm: A User’s Guide. Want to take a look and let me know if that seems similar to what you’re experiencing?

I also wonder, if this isn’t a pleasureful sensation but more of an overstimulating sensation, whether the toy could be providing too much stimulation. Do you like how the toy feels? Is it comfortable for you? Too, are you only using the toy, or are you building up to it with something like fingers?