Does vaginal tightness vary from week to week?
-
- newbie
- Posts: 1
- Joined: Thu Aug 06, 2020 10:31 pm
- Age: 43
- Pronouns: He
- Location: Chino Hills
Does vaginal tightness vary from week to week?
My wife (37) and I (38) haven't had sex in about a week. When we had sex, she was incredibly tight like a virgin. This is normal, she can get very tight when we don't have sex for a week or longer. After about 20 minutes of sex, she was loose enough where it was fairly easy to have sex. Then 4 days after that we had sex and she was noticeably looser, like much looser. I'm wondering if this is something that can just happen, bc I'm thinking that another guy helped her get that loose.
-
- previous staff/volunteer
- Posts: 10320
- Joined: Mon Jul 28, 2014 9:06 am
- Age: 33
- Awesomeness Quotient: I raise carnivorous plants
- Primary language: english
- Pronouns: she/her
- Sexual identity: queer
- Location: Coast
Re: Does vaginal tightness vary from week to week?
Hi Savvy,
So, how tight or loose the vaginal canal feels depends on how aroused the person is more than anything else. How "loose" or "tight" a vagina is is about muscle tone (and muscles aren't made looser by using them, which you probably already know from your own arms or legs) and about somebodies arousal and relaxation. So, the fact she felt looser isn't any indication of her sexual activity. Too, if she's often very tight when you two have sex, that may actually be a sign she's not all that aroused at the start of things, which may be something you two could benefit from discussing. If you're looking for more information on this, this article will help you out: It's a Vagina, Not a Crystal Ball.
So, how tight or loose the vaginal canal feels depends on how aroused the person is more than anything else. How "loose" or "tight" a vagina is is about muscle tone (and muscles aren't made looser by using them, which you probably already know from your own arms or legs) and about somebodies arousal and relaxation. So, the fact she felt looser isn't any indication of her sexual activity. Too, if she's often very tight when you two have sex, that may actually be a sign she's not all that aroused at the start of things, which may be something you two could benefit from discussing. If you're looking for more information on this, this article will help you out: It's a Vagina, Not a Crystal Ball.
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
-
- Similar Topics
- Replies
- Views
- Last post
-
- 3 Replies
- 2706 Views
-
Last post by Willa
Tue Feb 20, 2024 3:49 pm
-
- 1 Replies
- 3086 Views
-
Last post by Willa
Wed Feb 28, 2024 8:16 am
-
-
New post Is double vaginal penetration even possible?
by coreylore » Sat Mar 23, 2024 1:28 pm » in Got Questions? Get Answers. - 2 Replies
- 20070 Views
-
Last post by coreylore
Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:22 am
-
-
- 4 Replies
- 1008 Views
-
Last post by Sam W
Fri Sep 06, 2024 7:29 am
-
- 3 Replies
- 2317 Views
-
Last post by CaitlinEve
Sun May 12, 2024 6:56 pm