i dont feel a thing
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caroneanea
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i dont feel a thing
hi im 13 and i dont feel any thing when i masturbate, i do get orgasms but when i penetrate with my fingers i cant feel a thing,i would like to know if theres something wrong (i also use lube but nothing works)

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Heather
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Re: i dont feel a thing
You know, the inner 2/3rds of the vaginal canal has very few sensory nerve endings: so, most people, most of the time, are not going to get high levels of sensations from vaginal entry all by itself, or vaginal entry where there's not a lot of pressure. Too, unless people are very excited, the whole of the vagina -- and a lot of the vulva, including the external clitoris -- often won't feel like a whole lot of much. It's being turned on that's a big part of those areas feeling very sensitive.
You probably don't mean you "don't feel anything" when you masturbate, regardless. Unless you literally mean you touch yourself anywhere on your body, or even on your whole genitals, and cannot feel your hands are even there, that's not what you're talking about. perhaps you mean you don't feel what you expected to, or things feel less intense than you hoped or want?
You probably don't mean you "don't feel anything" when you masturbate, regardless. Unless you literally mean you touch yourself anywhere on your body, or even on your whole genitals, and cannot feel your hands are even there, that's not what you're talking about. perhaps you mean you don't feel what you expected to, or things feel less intense than you hoped or want?
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caroneanea
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Re: i dont feel a thing
it doesnt feel the way i want it to feel
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Sam W
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Re: i dont feel a thing
Okay, so what, when you imagine the sensations from masturbation, do you want or expect it to feel like?
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Re: i dont feel a thing
I've been having a similar problem , I haven't even gotten near an orgasm so you've got a leg up.
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