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[aaru257]

can i get pregnant if i sat on my boyfriend's lap with no underwear on?

He had on his underwear and jeans and there was no ejaculate but maybe pre-ejaculate.

[Elise]

Hi aaru257, you'll see that this post has been locked. You can read below why, and also what we can talk with you about, you mentioned that this fear is very persistent and we can talk to you about the fear and anxiety you have and help with addressing it. At the end of this post there are some tools that can help you with the feelings you are having right now, too.

The thread we made to talk about that with you is still here here: viewtopic.php?f=5&t=11266, and there is another link to an article that can help you there, too.

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Why this post is locked:

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