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I know I've been asking alot of questions but i have an important one i can't stop watching porn for 20-100 mins a day and i know that i am not supposed to i talked to my mom and she just said yah that's fine you are experimenting but just know it's not very realistic, but i still feel wrong about it

Hi CatMatRat99,

So, if you feel like you're watching porn to a degree that it's getting in the way of other things you need to do, is making you uncomfortable, or is feeling more like a compulsion than something you do out of desire and curiosity, then it would be sound to find ways to take a break from it.

Do you have the ability to block or otherwise restrict the places you watch it? Too, do you notice you tend to watch it when you're feeling a certain way (aroused, bored, etc)?

mainly when im bored but i dont know how to restrict it

Hi CatMatRat99,

There are some options on how you can restrict the places you watch it, depending on what device or browser you use to access the media. Do you use a smartphone or a computer?

Also, do you experience difficulty diverting your attention from the desire to watch porn? For instance, when you want to watch porn, are you able to just pick up another activity (read a book, watch a movie, take a walk, draw/paint, etc.) or does the want to watch porn stay on your mind even while you do other things?

both and for the second question it stays on my mind for a while

Hey CatMatRat99,

It sounds like your porn consumption may be bordering on compulsion rather than consuming for desire or curiosity. If this sounds right, it may be helpful to take a break. As Sam said, you can restrict the places where you watch it on your device or browser. This would be a good place to start. You could start with a manageable amount of time to take a break. It sounds like you currently watch porn for around 20-100 minutes a day. You could try abstaining from watching porn for a whole day and see how you feel.

In the time when you're consciously not watching porn, it could be helpful to take some time to reflect on how you're feeling. Some questions to ask yourself could include: How do I feel when I'm watching porn? How do I feel when I finish watching porn? What are other activities I have found joy in before I started watching porn? What are some things I'd like to do but haven't done because I have been watching porn? What do I want my personal sex and relationship life to look like?

I hope this helps!

Ok il do that!