Risk of condom treating during oral sex

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Risk of condom treating during oral sex

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Hi! I’m aware you should (unless told otherwise) avoid using teeth as much as possible, but should I worry about maybe accidentally creating a tear (visible or not) in the condom when I perform oral sex? Thanks in advance!
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Re: Risk of condom treating during oral sex

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Hi SYZ123,

In theory, your teeth could cause a tear in the condom, although the amount of pressure you'd have to use in order to make one rip is probably more than than you'd want to be putting on a partner's genitals. Too, when a condom breaks, it does so in a big, noticeable way, so if you did tear it during oral sex, you'd know that had happened.
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Re: Risk of condom tearing during oral sex

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Hi! Can’t micro tears also occur? Ones you can't see?
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Re: Risk of condom treating during oral sex

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Nope, condoms don't really get mico-tears. When they tear, it's much more like a rip or an obvious break than a tiny hole.
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Re: Risk of condom tearing during oral sex

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Huh.. I’ve heard of micro-tears.. that shit gave me anxiety lol
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Re: Risk of condom treating during oral sex

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Hey! Totally understand that! Is there anything else we can help answer for you?
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