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i thought the guy had put his penis in me, but he says he didnt i know he was fingering me before i thought he put his penis in me but when i got home i was lightly bleeding

Hi aceyaya,

So, the hymen isn't something that can be "popped" per se. In fact, the hymen isn't quite what many of us imagine it to be. You can read about that more here:
My Corona: The Anatomy Formerly Known as the Hymen & the Myths That Surround It

That said, manual sex can cause some bleeding, but that's usually do to lack of lubrication and the corona becoming irritated or torn. I'm a little concerned that you are unclear on what actually happened. Did you and he discuss what you planned on doing together before you started being sexual?