It's been a frustrating, bad day and you find yourself full of nasty emotions that need a release. What do you do when you feel that way? What things have you found work well vs less well?
For me, I've started boxing, which helps a lot because a) I get to punch things and b) I have to focus so much on what my body is doing that the negative feelings get pushed out of my brain.
How about y'all?
How do you blow off steam?
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Users often report that they have no in-person peers they can talk to or seek support from: we want this to be a space for online peer support and somewhere everyone can get some practice asking for, getting and giving support so that doing it with people in your lives feels more doable.
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Sam W
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How do you blow off steam?
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
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Fender909
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Re: How do you blow off steam?
When I feel really angry or jealous I practice on my guitar.
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Re: How do you blow off steam?
(Is it a Fender? I have to ask. 
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Re: How do you blow off steam?
Writing. My journal is the best for this sort of thing. As I once wrote, "Paper won't laugh."
Or, if I'm so mad that I can't even write fast enough to get it out of my system, I go somewhere private, turn on the audio recorder on my phone, and rant aloud. Then if I feel the need I play the recording back and nod in sympathy with myself. You wouldn't believe how cleansing that second part can be.
Or, if I'm so mad that I can't even write fast enough to get it out of my system, I go somewhere private, turn on the audio recorder on my phone, and rant aloud. Then if I feel the need I play the recording back and nod in sympathy with myself. You wouldn't believe how cleansing that second part can be.
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Re: How do you blow off steam?
I throw vegetables at zombies.
Okay, that's only one of the things I do, but it sounds a lot more fun than the rest.
Some other good ones for me have been:
- Boxing and mixed martial arts (hint: you can always tape something unto your heavy bag. President Bush's face was frequently pinned unto mine for years)
- Mosh pits. I really miss the days when a) there were plenty of mosh pits to be found, and b) I was young enough to be fearless in them instead of terrified
- Drumming
- Yelling (in places where no one is around and it's okay)
- Writing, for sure
- Playing with pets
- Just finding ways to be utterly silly.
Okay, that's only one of the things I do, but it sounds a lot more fun than the rest.
Some other good ones for me have been:
- Boxing and mixed martial arts (hint: you can always tape something unto your heavy bag. President Bush's face was frequently pinned unto mine for years)
- Mosh pits. I really miss the days when a) there were plenty of mosh pits to be found, and b) I was young enough to be fearless in them instead of terrified
- Drumming
- Yelling (in places where no one is around and it's okay)
- Writing, for sure
- Playing with pets
- Just finding ways to be utterly silly.
Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has. - Margaret Mead