I'm 13 (and virgin) and I like to masturbate to...

[Rageandlove]

Why do I like to masturbate to this man... He's my celebrity crush, but every time I see pictures of him I think like "my god the things I would do" but I'm not even old enough why do I feel like this? It feels good but I'm kinda ashamed to think such things about him .

[KierC]

Hi there Rageandlove, and welcome to the boards!

Could you say a little more about why you feel ashamed about this, or a little more on where those bad feelings are coming from?

For what it’s worth, I don’t think having a celebrity crush is something to be ashamed about, even if you are younger than them. Celebrities and the teams who manage them go a long way to maintain an attractive, often sexualized, image, so it’s really understandable why a lot of people have crushes on celebrities, regardless of age.

Celebrity crushes also exist in the realm of sexual fantasy, which is a healthy expression of sexuality. Too, I’ll add that sexual fantasies, including thoughts we have about celebrities, do not have an impact on our actions in real life unless we want them to. It’s a healthy and common way to explore different aspects of your sexuality in a safe environment!

[Snoopy_Cheerioo]

OMG I TOTALLY GET HOW U FEEL!! I'm a little late to the plate,it's a year late I know...I know...but who cares? :/

Anywho.. I personally think it's completely okay to feel this way,cus at the end of the day,your hurting no one ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ take it from someone who feels your pain [and is 15 and also a virgin :,)]. so what if I look at a picture of mads mikkelsen and start reciting the lyrics of Judas by Lady Gaga,just another reason for the demons in my closet to go away ┐⁠(⁠ ⁠˘⁠_⁠˘⁠)⁠┌
yeah,I look at him and think "please...just FIVE MINUTES IN A ROOM WITH THIS MAN, THAT'S ALL I NEED." Big whoop! it's just a phase, it'll pass by sooner or later,even if it takes a month or two...possibly 3.Trust me, Oscar Isaac was my last victim...*gulp* ..

[Jacob]

Hi Snoopy!

Welcome to Scarleteen! This thread is over 6 months old so I'd encourage you to start your own thread if you want to start a conversation about anything.

I'd also add that fantasy is pretty much something you have with yourself so thankfully nobody is a "victim" of being thought of in a fantasy.