What to expect?

[FunkyBunny27]

Hi! I apologize if any of this is in the wrong space or doesn’t make much sense as I am totally new here and don’t really know what I’m doing, so I’ll just jump right into it!

I’m 15(f) (about to be 16 by the end of the month) and my partner (they/them, slightly older than me) will be visiting next month. We are both lesbian and going to have our first time (to be clear I’m on the receiving end, no role switches here) and I just wanna know what to expect ! I’m not concerned about them being too aggressive or not knowing what I want as we have great communication skills and talked about this plenty of times, but I’d still love to know what to expect! We are both doing our parts on research and trying to figure everything out but I figured some direct help never hurts.


Along with that, I want to try and start practicing fingering myself so I can be more well prepared if that makes sense? All the resources I’ve found are from people way older and are just too vague for me to understand:( I’ve never used tampons or anything like that so I’m not really sure what to expect with that! I’ve been practicing and I have managed to get a finger in relatively deep (I may have found the g spot at some point but I’m not entirely sure) but I haven’t really moved it or anything cause I’m just too afraid to yet- If it matters at all though my partner does have some experience with fingering themself and plans on getting lube if they can


Just a little rundown or words of advice would be nice! Thank you and have a good day/night


-Bunny (not my actual name)

[Heather]

Hey there, Bunny. Welcome to the boards!

How people are sexual with each other is as diverse as how people talk with each other, or dance with each other: no one could tell you what to expect because you, your partner, both your bodies, both your sexualities, your histories, your wants and needs and likes and dislikes and whatevers and then all of that combined make their own very, very unique thing, and always will.

Is there a certain kind of sexual activity you're asking about? And if so, what are you looking to know about it?

You don't need to practice anything: sex is an experience, not a skill, you know? But if it feels good, or makes you feel liek you'll feel more comfortable with a partner, you can explore your body however you want. It's not going to change anything about your body to do that, you just might, again, feel more comfortable doing similar with a partner, and might also learn some things about what does or doesn't feel good to you. Again, there aren't going to be step-by-step directions for this, it's your own curiosity and pleasure who do the driving with this. Get what I mean?