Cuming?

[Sam0731]

Hey so where do I cum? this might be a obvious question but I don’t know what to do. Previously I’ve done it in the bathroom onto myself then showered (I have a penis btw, and I ejaculate a lot and with some power) but it’s quite inconvenient especially when I get horny at night and can’t shower after because of my family who I don’t want to wake. I want to do it in Bed but where? I’ve heard “cum into a tissue or sock” but what does that even mean? Do I wrap it around my penis? I tried the sock once (a basic Nike sock) and it was scratchy on the head of my penis when I moved the sock up and down along my penis (I also still have my foreskin so my head is very sensitive). Also what does I do after, I don’t have a bunch of socks and it feels weird to Wash my cum sock in the family laundry machine, will it just dissolve away? Anyways I know this was a long rant but I’m so confused and it feels like this should be so simple

[Sofi]

Hi there. The sock (or tissue, rag, etc) should come in at the end when you’re ready to ejaculate, so there’s no need to rub it on your penis. You can just grab it when it’s time, and ejaculate into/onto it. The semen will dissolve in the washing machine but you could also just rinse the semen off the sock or rag in the sink first and then put it in with your laundry. If it’s a tissue, you can just throw it in the trash, or even flush it down the toilet.

Alternatively, if you want to create less waste and not deal with the laundry situation, you can also masturbate in the shower and ejaculate into the drain. It’s much easier to clean the shower floor than having to wash rags and socks and such, but it’s just a matter of preference.

It’s also normal to masturbate, many if not most people do it. So while it’s important to do it privately and not ejaculate on shared surfaces without cleaning them after, out of respect for your family, it’s perfectly okay to do it in your own bed or shower and just wash/clean up after. Does that help?