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[bricknmortar]

I feel like I've been here a lot lol. Long story short, my gf has a 7 inch dick and I'm worried about it. I just got used to penetration with something 5ish inches and even with a lot of lube it's not very comfortable. Ive also never sucked dick before and I'm very worried it will be uncomfortable for me and not pleasurable to her, she's very sweet and understanding but I feel bad because she has no problem eating pussy and I want to return the favor. idk how y'all can help but i figured id ask anyway ;—;

[Latha]

Hi Bricknmortar! If you're worried about asking questions, don't be! We're happy to help, and the boards are meant for these discussions.

To start with some practical advice:

• Reciprocation doesn't have to be one-to-one. I appreciate that you want to return the favor, but if you are not ready for an activity, or if it isn't comfortable, you can help your girlfriend feel good in other ways.

• If you are nervous about trying oral sex with her for the first time, trying it with a toy might feel less intimidating.

• Having oral or genital sex with your partner doesn't mean you have to be able to take in all or even most of seven inches. If you are looking for depth, you can compensate for it in other pleasurable ways, such as with a hand or a toy.

• You can ask her to tell you about what she likes, or give you directions and feedback as you go. Just trying to follow that should help.

Between this question and your last one, it is clear that you care about making sure your girlfriend feels good with you. Experience can help when it comes to sex, but it isn't everything -- it is very likely that you'll be able to have a good time with her, just as you are now. It is also not too difficult to learn about what a partner enjoys. Try to give yourself time, communicate with her, and don't pressure yourself.

Feel free to ask more questions! If you'd like, we can talk about what might be causing that discomfort you mentioned with insertive sex.