how do I calm myself?

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akaliisa
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how do I calm myself?

Unread post by akaliisa »

hey guys!! me and my bf were fooling around and when i gave him a blowjob, he came. he may have gotten some of it in his hands and while he was touching my body, he touched my vulva briefly. To be clear, I was using my underwear. I took plan B, my period is only supposed to come by the end of the month.. but I feel like I’ll go insane by then 😭 should I worry? What can I do to calm myself? :(
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Re: how do I calm myself?

Unread post by Andy »

Hi there, akaliisa and welcome to the boards!

I’m sorry to hear you are feeling so stressed about this.
So I know how can we best help you, do you already have the information about why pregnancy is not possible in this situation or would reading a scientifically proven breakdown of how pregnancy can and cannot occur be helpful?
Or do you already understand it and want to talk about how to manage the anxiety you are experiencing?
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