Pregnancy scare

[Dexter]

My gf had last 4 period 10 days late so this cycle we decided not to do any thing and we never had sex ever we just kiss blowjob handjob breast pressing but no vaginal intercourse or ejaculation near vagina or fingering this time she is 13 days late as we decided previously we will not do any so i never touched her vagina nor i saw her vagina this cycle else everything happened like kiss bj hj she never got naked from bottoms whole month with me it can be pregnancy or just late period

[Andy]

Hi there and welcome to the boards, Dexter!

It sounds like you already have a pretty good idea what can and cannot cause pregnancy, so I will just echo that there is no pregnancy risk because there wasn’t any direct genital contact. Does hearing that help?

If you would still want some more info about what activities carry what risks, this article of ours should help you out: Can I Get Pregnant, or Get or Pass On an STI From That?. If it brings out more questions or thoughts we are happy to talk about them with you.

[Dexter]

But can there be any risk just asking generally

[Andy]

What kind of risk are you asking about, pregnancy, STIs or something else?
And do you mean in the activities you mentioned?

[Dexter]

Yes asking about pregnancy risk as period are also late

[Andy]

As I said, and as you can read in the article I sent (if you haven’t read it yet please do, it might be helpful for you to see it written), there is no pregnancy risk because there wasn’t any direct genital contact or direct contact with sperm.

There are many other reasons why a period might be delayed: strenuous exercise, stress, medical conditions etc. (more about that here: M.I.A or, Dude, Where's My Period? And it sounds like your girlfriend’s period have been lately coming later than expected too.

It sounds to me like this is causing you a lot of anxiety, is it something you experience in other parts of your life as well? And is it just you or is your girlfriend worried too?