Masturbation Barriers Other Than Underwear?

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Masturbation Barriers Other Than Underwear?

Unread post by violet3175 »

Hello! First time poster. Hopefully the title makes sense, not sure what to call it other than a barrier.

I have a vulva and masturbate by rubbing through my underwear, directly touching grosses me out, but I have concerns about how sanitary that is and having to change underwear is a hassle I'm tired of. I'm wondering if there's any alternatives that anyone uses, maybe like disposable gloves or something else I haven't thought of?
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Re: Masturbation Barriers Other Than Underwear?

Unread post by char »

Hi violet3175! Happy to have you here on the boards. First of all, would you mind sharing how and why directly touching your vulva has been making you uncomfortable? I'm asking so I could get an understanding of the kind of sensations you find pleasurable. Rubbing your vulva (including the clitoris) through underwear isn't unsanitary provided that you regularly change it. It's also good practice in general to change your underwear after some time of wearing.

I can't answer for everyone, since what works for some people may not work for others, but has other forms of clitoral stimulation like pillow humping worked for you? Also, are you open to trying sex toys that can stimulate the clitoris and other parts of the vulva? If buying a sex toy isn't an option for you, you might want to try DIY options.
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