I don’t know if I’m really coming when masturbating

[Magiii]

Hi, my name’s Magi and I’m 17 now, I been masturbating since 14, and after 15 I started squirting every single time I masturbate, so I’m kind of confused about if I’m actually coming by squirting because I’ve read some articles that said there’s a difference between female eyaculation and squirting (also I only stimulate my clit, even tho I tried fingering I just didn’t feel any pleasure, tried it multiple times with multiple things not just my fingers and never really felt any pleasure so please lmk if that’s like not normal and how can I fix it), so I want to know how to make myself eyaculate because I’m curious about it and I think it would feel different than squirting, thx for reading and sorry for my English, it’s not my first language, byeee

[Sofi]

Hi Magi, welcome to the boards! If you are more comfortable with Spanish, I speak it too, so feel free to switch over to it. Your English is great, though. <3

There's no "normal" way to masturbate as everyone has different things they enjoy and that work for them. As long as you're not feeling any pain, you're good. Clitoral stimulation is one of the most common ways people with a vulva masturbate, so no worries there.

Regarding "squirting", it's actually the same as ejaculation, but not the same as an orgasm. You CAN orgasm while you ejaculate, but you can also not - they're different things and can be separate. Ejaculation is involuntary and it doesn't happen to everyone with a vulva. You can read more about it here: Squirt: On Ejaculation
If anything from that article was confusing or you want to discuss it further, let me know!