Scarleteen

My partner wants to finger me and explore down there. I'm a little nervous as I have no experience with this. What supplies and positions should I be in? Latex exam gloves? I saw an enema in the drugstore. Should I get one? And how do I give myself one? I want our first time to be fun but also safe.
Thanks!

Have you already looked at the material we have on the main site about anal sex?

As well, is this something YOU want to explore yourself, not just your partner?

I would also like to finger myself. I'm completely lost. Could you give me directions?

This is one of those things where your best bet is just to experiment (either by yourself or with your partner) about what sensations feel good, since everybody's body is a little bit different. Too, as Heather mentioned, we have some info on the main site about anal sex (and out how to be safe in general). Have you taken a look at that?

I'm going to double down here and remind you about my requests you honor the agreement you made when registering and search the main site first before any more posts. It doesn't sound like you've yet done that, despite my requests.