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Period was late?

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Darren
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Period was late?

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Hi, I'm a very paranoid person and my girlfriend and i was fooling around , She took off her clothes and i started fingering her while my clothes was on. I did not touched my genitals when i fingered her so i'm pretty sure that my hands were dry and has no pre-cum and i did not ejaculated during that time. However, It's been about 34 days since her last period and her period has not came this month yet. She said that she's has been irregular at times but i'm still FREAKING out. She gaved me a blowjob after getting fingered too but she washed her hands after that immediately and i ejaculated in her mouth. Can anyone tell me is there any chance of her getting pregnant? :oops:
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And When She gaved me a blowjob, it was after she washed her hand and she wear back her clothes and it was my turn who was naked.
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This is the place to start -- and finish really, as it is super-thorough -- with these kinds of questions and concerns: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has. - Margaret Mead
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Darren
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I've read through that but i'm still not really sure... I Really appreciate the effort you took to reply but can i know what are the chances that my girlfriend would be pregnant? Thanks for helping
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Hi Darren,

Can I ask what is making you unsure of the answer?
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
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Darren
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It seems unclear to me as i dont really know and understand what are the chances my girlfriend would get pregnant, But it somehow helped a little. I know it's kind of impossible that she's pregnant but i'm a paranoid person and i just needed assurance. Thank you guys so much for helping and being patient. :)
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Re: Period was late?

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On the first page of that link, under the click-through options up top, is a concise, clear list and explanation of what does and doesn't present risks of pregnancy. You would look up "manual sex" in that list to tell you if what you did presented realistic risks or not. You will see, when you read that page on that link you were given, that manual sex is listed under "Scenarios like these are NOT how pregnancy happens."
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