pregnancy scare

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paranoid
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pregnancy scare

Unread post by paranoid »

hi! my girlfriend has red spots on her undies and she's frequently peeing. she thought that she is having her menstruation but it is early for week. but, we didnt have sex. we have manual sex but no penis and vagina penetration at all. I came but my sperm is just in her hands and then she wash her hands after. she is kinda bloating. and having red spots or spotting in her undies, is this implantation bleeding or what? is she pregnant?
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Re: pregnancy scare

Unread post by Redskies »

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family


For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
For help with anxiety, click here.
For related help and information at Scarleteen, click here.
If you would like more information about this policy, click here.
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