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[Chester]

Hi I'm new here. My friend told me about this site. I'm sorry if I posted this in the wrong place. Okay, my girlfriend and I are ready to have sex, but we don't want unwanted pregnancy to happen. I'm having doubts with condom actually and my girlfriend is not on the pill. What are other methods of performing safe intercourse? And few weeks ago, the both of us performed oral and manual sex together, still her period has not came yet. I doubt pregnancy is an issue here (logically), but its just that the missing period was also one of the reason the both of us are afraid to have intercourse, and couldn't you already feel the symptoms of pregnancy IF you've already have a 18 days late period?

[Heather]

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