Can't find pleasure

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bribri18293
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Can't find pleasure

Unread post by bribri18293 »

I masturbate with a household item but my vagina has gotten looser and I don't get pleasure anymore.When I look for something bigger it is too big.
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Sam W
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Re: Can't find pleasure

Unread post by Sam W »

Hi bribri,

So, one thing to know is that vagina's do not get "looser" as a result of penetration. You can read more about that here: It's a Vagina, Not a Crystal Ball

Too, size is only one factor in how pleasurable penetration feels. Movement, angle, and how aroused you are mentally all play a role in that as well. When you masturbate, do you feel like you're mentally aroused as well as physically aroused?
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
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