Please help. Late period no signs of pregnancy and pms

[jwakkerz]

Hi so i have this thing about late period and it scares the heck outta me. My last period started last sept 29 and i have my period every month. Sometimes i have a 28 day cycle sometimes its a 30 day cycle. The earliest is a 21 day cycle. My bf and i had protected sex last oct 4. He confessed that he came inside me for a sec then he pulled out so that he can finished it outside. After that he cleaned himself and took a pee. We messed around and my genitals touches his for about a minute but i believe that there are no sperm and im crazy about it because up until now, im not getting any signs of pms though i have mild cramps and a backache. I notice white watery to dry discharges.I feel like I’m secreting more saliva than usual. And oh this past few days i felt full and mild chest pain I tried a hpt yesterday and it appeard negative. This pregnancy scare is stressing me out please give me your thoughts because i dont want to be pregnant

Regards

Btw, im 19 yo

[al]

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