Scooter ride

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Sara1234
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Scooter ride

Unread post by Sara1234 »

I had taken a pillion ride on his scooter with a guy whom I met online, we were dating for a while. He was kind of creepy. He started masturbating when I was riding with him. I stopped the ride midway and got down.
But I have a fear like what if he had ejaculated on the seat of the scooter. I was sitting very close to him with each leg either side of the scooter on the ride, I feel so anxious even thinking about something like that would have happened. I have these illogical fears of getting pregnant because of that. Is that even possible.I was wearing a very thin trousers and no panties. Is it possible that ejaculate can seep through the clothing.
I know it's a part of pregnancy fear anxiety and it's against the policy of the forum to ask. But this is a traumatic event and I don't know how to proceed further.
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Re: Scooter ride

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We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

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As you've noted we don't answer pregnancy anxiety questions, but if you'd like to speak more detail on what sounds like a sexual assault from this person, we would be happy to do that on another thread.

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