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I had unprotected sex this March on the 21st and 22nd because we stayed up untill 3 A.M. so, basically half of the night on the 21st up until the next day the 22nd. We did it three times one with a condom he finshed in the condom. The second time was after we got out of the tub we did it without a condom but then I told him to put one on so he did, but he didn't finish the second time because the condom was irritating me. After that we rested then he went again for the 3rd time but this time without one but he pulled out. I figured I wasn't ovulating since I was already having PMS symptoms and I track my peiord. I then started my peiord on March the 23rd so after sex it finished the normal 7 days. Can I still get pregnant even if I started my peiord right after? I am still worried because this was an emotional abusive relationship and he just vanished a couple days after cause I was arguing with him about him lying on something so he didn't breakup I tired calling him and texting but he blocked my number and unfriended me on snapchat. No words he just took off and I am having a hard time. Before this happened when he left he kept saying I will be okay and cause I started my peiord right after. but I just feel worried. I know I need to still get tested but I have tested twice when I was with him on January and February and things came out good, but I still want to make sure again so I am going next week since I didn't see him for a full month of Febuary since we had a distance relationship he is only 4 hours away from me. I know I need to make sure cause I don't know what he has been doing for that month of February when he didn't see me. Anyways really worried cause I started to cramp a day after I finished my peiord and my peiord was from march
23rd-29th. Much help would be appreciated.

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