I am so scared

[blondy01]

2 weeks ago I had sex with a condom used correctly, and he pulled out before he ejaculated. my period is due today (though I have irregular cycles) and it has not come yet. my cycles have been 23-25 days for the last 4 cycles but now its day 25 and it still hasn't come.

I am having all my normal pms for the past 3-5 days but still no bleeding. I am so terrified that I am pregnant. I am not going to have sex again. I took a test on Wednesday (14 days after intercourse) and it was negative. I'm just worried it was wrong and that I'm pregnant.

[blondy01]

I have also been under extreme stress the past 2 weeks with starting school again and also worrying about this to the point of having panic attacks at least once a day. I was supposed to have a counseling appointment but it got cancelled.

[blondy01]

I have also been under extreme stress the past 2 weeks with starting school again and also worrying about this to the point of having panic attacks at least once a day. I was supposed to have a counseling appointment but it got cancelled.

[Siân]

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