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by Redskies
Thu Dec 04, 2014 3:53 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: book recommendations/ID'ing as a disabled person
Replies: 1
Views: 2847

Re: book recommendations/ID'ing as a disabled person

Sorry you've had a little wait on this, AvocadoLime. I, personally, am a bit late to the party re. knowing what disability communities and information are the best, and where to find them, so I hope other folk can pitch in too. One I know comes highly recommended might not work for you, because I'm ...
by Redskies
Mon Dec 01, 2014 7:32 am
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: ID'ing as someone with a disability?
Replies: 5
Views: 4777

Re: ID'ing as someone with a disability?

I'm glad it was helpful to you! You're welcome. That's great that you had someone so accessible to you to ask about the job stuff! I'm really glad you were able to get such good feedback and to come to a conclusion that feels good to you. I'm sad but very unsurprised that the situation is as your mo...
by Redskies
Mon Dec 01, 2014 7:20 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Shortened Placebo Week with Pills
Replies: 2
Views: 4381

Re: Shortened Placebo Week with Pills

Yes, shortening a placebo week like that is fine for effectiveness. It's possible that the timing of your bleed might be a little thrown off temporarily or that you might get a bit of breakthrough bleeding, but the only issues with that are the inconvenience or if someone wasn't expecting it and got...
by Redskies
Sat Nov 29, 2014 3:14 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Macrobid?
Replies: 3
Views: 2117

Re: Macrobid?

You're very welcome, and no worries! I didn't infer that, either (although it's always absolutely ok to ask us about anything that doesn't quite seem right - we're only human, after all :) ) - just wanted to do as much as possible to clear things up for you.
by Redskies
Sat Nov 29, 2014 2:17 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Macrobid?
Replies: 3
Views: 2117

Re: Macrobid?

Your doctor specifically said that this medication won't interfere with your Ring, so that's your clear answer. I found a patient information leaflet for Macrobid, and it stated that oral contraceptives may be affected. Obviously, the ring isn't oral, so you're all good! Information about drug inter...
by Redskies
Sat Nov 29, 2014 9:45 am
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: ID'ing as someone with a disability?
Replies: 5
Views: 4777

Re: ID'ing as someone with a disability?

I don't want to offer an opinion on whether you should tick that box on this form or any form, because that's a personal choice and also probably better informed by information specific to your country, field and other details. So, none of what I say is intended in that light! On whether you may : y...
by Redskies
Sat Nov 29, 2014 8:25 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Adviced Needed about Periods and Sex
Replies: 1
Views: 1937

Re: Adviced Needed about Periods and Sex

Menstrual fluid, in itself, is not at all harmful or dangerous. If the person has an infection which is blood-borne or carried in other bodily fluids (for example, cervical fluids), then menstrual fluid can carry and transmit that infection. Because menstrual fluid contains blood, contact with menst...
by Redskies
Sat Nov 29, 2014 7:52 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Vomiting and Pill Absorption Time
Replies: 2
Views: 1815

Re: Vomiting and Pill Absorption Time

Your pill should be absorbed by 3 hours after taking it, but given you're talking about 3 hours here, it does no harm to make sure. What does your pill information leaflet say about the amount of time between taking a pill and vomiting? That's probably your best source of information. If it's not cl...
by Redskies
Mon Nov 24, 2014 2:17 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Breast Soreness Before Period
Replies: 2
Views: 1612

Re: Breast Soreness Before Period

Some people have more breast tenderness while taking the combined pill. It can also simply happen occasionally, particularly shortly before a period. Discharge is the vagina's way of keeping itself clean. If you'd like to check that your discharge sounds healthy, here's our information on discharge ...
by Redskies
Mon Nov 24, 2014 2:02 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Advice needed!!
Replies: 6
Views: 2903

Re: Advice needed!!

You can take a test any time when your period becomes late.
by Redskies
Sat Nov 22, 2014 7:29 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: To Tell or Not To Tell: That is the Question
Replies: 1
Views: 1402

Re: To Tell or Not To Tell: That is the Question

Welcome to the boards. Per telling him at all, or now or later, I think it's entirely about what you want and what you feel best about. I don't think we're obligated to tell a partner details about our sexual history - beyond being responsible about our own and their health, for example - and we're ...
by Redskies
Sat Nov 22, 2014 6:42 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Do I need to let go of this fear and trust more?
Replies: 7
Views: 3603

Re: Do I need to let go of this fear and trust more?

I think the first thing I'd do is make sure we're all on the same page about what "not pressuring" means, because sometimes, there can be a subtle pressure that we don't consciously recognise as pressure, but part of us still has a "something isn't ok" kind of feeling. So, with y...
by Redskies
Sat Nov 22, 2014 5:48 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: yeast is the worst
Replies: 2
Views: 1722

Re: yeast is the worst

Also, about it burning more when you put the prescribed cream on it: as far as I know, from my own personal and other people's experiences, yeast medication cream often does exactly that. Most typically, it feels more burny and painful for maybe 10-30 minutes after applying the cream, not least beca...
by Redskies
Fri Nov 14, 2014 5:54 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: New user now, but an old-timer at our old boards?
Replies: 64
Views: 189227

Re: New user now, but an old-timer at our old boards?

ralphie41, yes, that'd be it: new users get access to all the boards after 5 posts. As a returning/continuing user, you should now be good to go with full posting access :)
by Redskies
Fri Nov 14, 2014 5:08 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Increased discharge
Replies: 1
Views: 1386

Re: Increased discharge

I know you've asked us about watery discharge before - have you been able to get any sexual healthcare? Watery discharge can sometimes be caused by a vaginal imbalance or infection, so it's a good idea to get checked by an in-person healthcare provider. It's really not necessary to put water in cond...
by Redskies
Fri Nov 14, 2014 4:49 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Unexplained Anxiety
Replies: 11
Views: 3497

Re: Unexplained Anxiety

Given that your period usually lasts 7-8 days, you still having some red discharge at 11 days doesn't sound like an extreme difference. Variations in the menstrual cycle are particularly common in the first few years of having your period; you not having had this before simply means it's the first t...
by Redskies
Fri Nov 14, 2014 4:18 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Precum & Condoms Breaking in the beginning
Replies: 3
Views: 2954

Re: Precum & Condoms Breaking in the beginning

Because you're taking the pill, no, you won't be ovulating. One of the major ways the pill works is to prevent ovulation altogether. For a detailed explanation of how that works, you can have a read: How do birth control pills really work, even during the placebo period? Having some discharge is sim...
by Redskies
Sun Nov 09, 2014 4:24 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Regarding Sex
Replies: 3
Views: 1952

Re: Regarding Sex

Welcome to the boards, _bee. It's normal to have some discharge at any time, as that's how the vagina cleans itself. We have more information on what kinds of discharge are healthy and what kinds are a good idea to check with a doctor here: Honorably Discharged: A Guide to Vaginal Secretions . Too, ...
by Redskies
Fri Nov 07, 2014 8:34 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: STI
Replies: 3
Views: 1793

Re: STI

To clarify something first: a person won't get warts from the herpes virus. Genital warts are caused by some strains of HPV, not herpes. While some herpes infections may be asymptomatic, common symptoms are a rash or blisters - you can see more detailed information in the "STI Files" artic...
by Redskies
Sat Nov 01, 2014 7:28 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Rocky Horror and Media Criticism
Replies: 2
Views: 2006

Re: Rocky Horror and Media Criticism

I'm so immensely sorry you had that experience in that crowd. What you're describing of the audience's behaviour is absolutely vile, and being in that crowd would be soul-hurting and terrifying. I hope that you're able to take whatever time and space you need for some extra-top-quality self-care, an...
by Redskies
Thu Oct 30, 2014 3:50 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: difference between potentially abusive and abusive relatiosh
Replies: 6
Views: 4067

Re: difference between potentially abusive and abusive relat

To clarify something Keda said above: interfering with any birth control method is a form of abuse, and it's a serious abuse because it takes away that person's reproductive autonomy. I think a little of this is a language problem: "potential" is a bit of a slippery word. What I hope the p...
by Redskies
Thu Oct 30, 2014 12:00 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Struggling and venting.
Replies: 8
Views: 6095

Re: Struggling and venting.

From what you've described of your home situation, I think that living somewhere else would probably be a good priority for you. It's nearly impossible for any of us to become more healthy in an environment that's unhealthy for us and actively unsupportive. I appreciate that getting another place to...
by Redskies
Thu Oct 30, 2014 10:31 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: difference between potentially abusive and abusive relatiosh
Replies: 6
Views: 4067

Re: difference between potentially abusive and abusive relat

I wonder if some of the issue here is different people's different use of the phrase/concept "red flags". The examples you listed, AvocadoLime, are all abusive behaviours, yes, no matter the context or frequency or anything else. Thinking about where I've seen "red flags" used, I...
by Redskies
Wed Oct 29, 2014 4:52 pm
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: Hurting and confused and scared
Replies: 21
Views: 11646

Re: Hurting and confused and scared

I think that pace is a really important point here. I think there's a big, big difference between still being very new to a healing path and not yet feeling able/ready to take certain steps or the next steps on that path, and ending up stuck in the same place for a protracted length of time. You sou...
by Redskies
Wed Oct 29, 2014 10:36 am
Forum: Site Help & Service
Topic: Trying to find pdf link!
Replies: 1
Views: 4176

Re: Trying to find pdf link!

We'd be very happy for you to use it, and thank you for asking :) As is standard whenever you use or adapt something created by someone else, you should include the writers of the piece (so, for that one, Heather Corinna and CJ Turett) and the source of the piece (so, www.scarleteen.com and the piec...