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- Thu Jan 08, 2015 9:48 am
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: National late abortion ban in the US?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 4991
Re: National late abortion ban in the US?
Huh, I'll have to knock thinkprogress down a notch or two in my source reliability book, then. Thankyou, that explains why I couldn't find anything else about it.
- Thu Jan 08, 2015 9:37 am
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: What actually is a withdrawal bleed?
- Replies: 22
- Views: 39987
Re: What actually is a withdrawal bleed?
You just miscounted.
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- Thu Jan 08, 2015 8:14 am
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: National late abortion ban in the US?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 4991
National late abortion ban in the US?
I just spotted this article on facebook: http://thinkprogress.org/health/2015/01 ... -abortion/
It doesn't seem to have been picked up by my other news sources. Do you guys know anything about it?
It doesn't seem to have been picked up by my other news sources. Do you guys know anything about it?
- Wed Jan 07, 2015 11:02 am
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: Advice and help on Tampons (I know nothing about them :/ )
- Replies: 31
- Views: 12743
Re: Advice and help on Tampons (I know nothing about them :/
Maybe the old trick of using a hand mirror to have a look at your vulva, and then having a gentle poke around, might help? So long as you cut and file your fingernails first, you're really at no risk of hurting yourself - just like ordinary skin, you'll feel pressure, then discomfort, then pain long...
- Wed Jan 07, 2015 4:47 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Are there any bad things about masterbating
- Replies: 1
- Views: 2617
Re: Are there any bad things about masterbating
There are no bad side effects of masturbation itself. Problems can happen - if someone is spending so much time masturbating that they don't have time for study or work; or if their beliefs (about religion, about masturbating while in a relationship, or something like that) make them feel bad afterw...
- Sun Jan 04, 2015 7:44 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Some Pain
- Replies: 2
- Views: 1862
Re: Some Pain
I too would recommend against ripping duct tape off, since that stuff is mighty damn sticky and there's a not insignificant risk of taking some skin off with it. Using other types of tape which are less powerfully adhesive, or something like a big sticking plaster (which, after all, is designed to c...
- Thu Jan 01, 2015 5:54 pm
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: Tumblr makes me sad sometimes (Leelah Alcorn)
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4396
Re: Tumblr makes me sad sometimes (Leelah Alcorn)
I totally get that, accessibility is just as important as inclusiveness; I also had completely failed to notice that the article was from 2007 originally! Sorry about that.
- Thu Jan 01, 2015 5:33 pm
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: Tumblr makes me sad sometimes (Leelah Alcorn)
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4396
Re: Tumblr makes me sad sometimes (Leelah Alcorn)
No, you're right - it's not a failing of tumblr at all. But you go into some spaces geared up for the possibility of people saying horrible things, and tumblr isn't one of those spaces for me. Social change is a funny thing - when you're near the front of it, it can be easy to forget how many pocket...
- Thu Jan 01, 2015 5:24 pm
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: So many New Years babies!
- Replies: 4
- Views: 3363
Re: So many New Years babies!
It must be the relief of not needing the heating on to get naked comfortably.
- Thu Jan 01, 2015 5:18 pm
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: So many New Years babies!
- Replies: 4
- Views: 3363
Re: So many New Years babies!
I wonder if 01/01 is the default date when you sign up? :P My other site has "Male" as the default gender option, and it's always amusing to see that in a community which is about 80% female by most accounts, about 80% of our users have "Male" on their profiles. Either way, happy...
- Thu Jan 01, 2015 5:06 pm
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: Tumblr makes me sad sometimes (Leelah Alcorn)
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4396
Tumblr makes me sad sometimes (Leelah Alcorn)
I don't know how many of you guys have heard of Leelah Alcorn: she was a trans teen in the US, who killed herself a few days ago, having left a suicide note online. Since she came out to her family, they'd been as unsupportive as they possibly could, had punished her for being trans, and had forced ...
- Wed Dec 31, 2014 10:29 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: I'm the only one who thinks it's best that I'm single.
- Replies: 2
- Views: 1883
Re: I'm the only one who thinks it's best that I'm single.
Redskies sort of mentioned this in their response, but if changing your parents' minds isn't a good option - it certainly sounds like doing that is gonna be difficult, and honestly, you're not obliged to explain your reasoning to them or satisfy them that you're making decisions well - then would it...
- Wed Dec 31, 2014 10:21 am
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: Yay for gender-neutral washrooms!
- Replies: 7
- Views: 6978
Re: Yay for gender-neutral washrooms!
There's a supermarket near me which did a rather smart thing, and just has a row of single bathrooms, no sex/gender signage, and they're all accessible. All "three" bathrooms fitted into the space that would usually be occupied by one.
Now if only they cleaned them occasionally...
Now if only they cleaned them occasionally...
- Tue Dec 30, 2014 6:11 pm
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Should we break up?
- Replies: 6
- Views: 2882
Re: Should we break up?
You can also get a certain amount of privacy by being in public - in a place where no-one knows you and no-one is interested in what you're saying. So maybe you could go for a meal with him, or go to the cinema or somesuch, and talk there? Or even just let your parents know that you need to have a s...
- Sat Dec 27, 2014 6:56 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: How does it feel...
- Replies: 2
- Views: 4182
Re: How does it feel...
It feels different for everyone, really. We have this tendency to put sex on a pedestal like it's totally incomparable, but it's not - you probably already know what it's like to physically feel skin on skin; to feel emotionally connected and intimate with someone; to feel aroused and excited - and ...
- Wed Dec 24, 2014 10:15 am
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: How do you understand your own orientation?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 7779
Re: How do you understand your own orientation?
Hehe, the idea that there is a label for people who think labels are for soup cans tickles me. I'm going through one of those weird fluctuations lately, where I still identify as pan but am mostly interested in women right now - back when I used to identify as bi I called it "riding the bi-cycl...
- Sun Dec 21, 2014 3:57 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Torn and confused.
- Replies: 42
- Views: 11371
Re: Torn and confused.
May I ask, with the dates, what was it you were scared/anxious about that made you freeze up? There's absolutely nothing wrong or horrible in wanting to find a romantic partner. All the things romantic relationships can provide - love, intimacy, support and so on - can be really positive things, whi...
- Sat Dec 20, 2014 8:14 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Neutral Masturbation
- Replies: 13
- Views: 6149
Re: Neutral Masturbation
Just human diversity, really, much like some people don't like cheese.
- Thu Dec 18, 2014 10:27 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Neutral Masturbation
- Replies: 13
- Views: 6149
Re: Neutral Masturbation
It's also totally cool not to ever find yourself feeling horny - the barrier that most people have around sex is "Ooh bad don't do that", which is why so much sex positive media is on the "Yes! Try it!" side; but in reality, sex positivity is about your sexual choices being based...
- Tue Dec 16, 2014 4:05 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: what is relationship work?
- Replies: 13
- Views: 5850
Re: what is relationship work?
Just to throw a spanner in the works, the only plant that I've owned myself so far was a lovely yellow thing which did reasonably well with me, until I went to visit family and gave it to a neighbour to look after while I was away. It absolutely blossomed under her care, and when I got back it despe...
- Sat Dec 13, 2014 5:11 am
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: Getting "inked"?
- Replies: 18
- Views: 8459
Re: Getting "inked"?
Awesome, I'm glad it went well! How's it looking?
- Sat Dec 13, 2014 5:07 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: what is relationship work?
- Replies: 13
- Views: 5850
Re: what is relationship work?
I get what you're saying at the end there, moonlight, and I agree to some extent, but not all the way. It's totally true that all the meaning we attach to stuff - to our interactions with other people, circumstances, events etc. - is all socially constructed; none of it has a basis in the "real...
- Fri Dec 12, 2014 3:58 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Scared of my own vulva (let alone vagina)?
- Replies: 6
- Views: 3118
Re: Scared of my own vulva (let alone vagina)?
In regard to the body positivity stuff, I wonder if it might be helpful to hunt around for some ace (asexual) social media too? Whatever your sexuality, I can imagine that people in the ace community might have a bit more of the attitude you're trying to get into, of "Yes, sex is great and wond...
- Sat Dec 06, 2014 4:42 pm
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: Getting "inked"?
- Replies: 18
- Views: 8459
Re: Getting "inked"?
Good luck! I hope it comes out brilliantly
- Sat Dec 06, 2014 3:34 pm
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Making up for a lack of "instinct"?
- Replies: 2
- Views: 2179
Re: Making up for a lack of "instinct"?
We saw Heather's quote about interpretive dance on tumblr, and my partner and I agreed that we do freestyle disco: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gTchxR4suto (just hoping that will make you feel a bit less worried about doing it wrong, Atlaos )