I’ll just suck it up if it means staying friends. Thank you.

No, that’s just always been a thing I’ve thought about. Even before him, and I didn’t say I wanted to change myself for him. Only as a way to feel closer to friends in general. I never liked that saying, “you are whoyou are”, it implies a lack of control. It’s fine if he’s not interested in me. I ju...

I never said it wasn’t a good thing for me to see him, I’m happy when I see him, in fact I wish we were closer even if not romantically. I just don’t want to feel sad afterwards. I want things to be normal, as if I never liked him that way in the first place. (Which is how things are from his end, t...

Hi Heather. Thank you for the kind words! For me it’s a little more complicated than just taking some space. Since I’m in college, things get in the way and people are really busy. So I feel like I need to take any chance to see my friends I can get or else I’ll miss out on something or loose touch....

I have this friend at school. It was earlier this year when I realized I liked him as more than a friend after I got through venting to him about another crush I had. When I look back, I feel like I’d always liked him, and the only thing that kept me from unpacking those feelings was confusion about...

Hi alice and Heather, Thanks for the responses! My mind is a bit more at ease. It’s something I definetely want to bring up with my doctor in the near future. Still though, I wish more had been explained to me when I was younger so I’d have been better protected. My mom (I’m under her insurance and ...

Hey there, I’m having a bit of a dilemma right now. You see, I’m a 20, going on 21 year old cis female and I didn’t get the HPV vaccine at the recommended age. I still haven’t had it to this day. I remember around age 13-14 or so when nurses started handing me packets at the end of my physicals. No ...