Masturbating

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XxDranxX
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Masturbating

Unread post by XxDranxX »

Hi, this is kinda embarrassing but whatever. I'm 13 y/o and I masturbate. I've only ever rubbed myself, but I don't like it anymore. I don't want to stick anything up there, not even my fingers, and I don't like using showerheads. I don't want to stop though, so I'm not sure what to use. Using a vibrator is impossible (won't be able to get one), but I still want to masturbate. Anyone have any advice?
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Re: Masturbating

Unread post by Siân »

Hi :)

Masturbation is not something we need to be ashamed about! It's a perfectly normal thing for people of all genders and ages to be doing.

Everyone masturbates differently, and in the end it's about what feels good for you and your body, so experimenting to find what we like is the only way any of us can work out what works for us. It sounds like you've already started figuring some of your preferences out!

You might like to think about pleasure more broadly, and this article gives a bit more insight on masturbation.
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Re: Masturbating

Unread post by Sam W »

Hi XxDranxX,

In addition to the solid advice Kat J gave, I also want to toss you this link: D.I.Y. Sex Toys: Self-Love Edition . There are a few ideas in there that you may find useful.
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Re: Masturbating and how to buy

Unread post by JaxieJaxie »

Hi I’m Megan and I’m 12 years old I have a few quensions about it.I have masturbated a few times I kind ok under stand about it but i would like to try a vibrator there is lots of reasons and I’m scared of my mom knowing about me masturbating.And I have watched porn which I am not proud of my self watching I don’t think my mom would be.And I’ve tried things but they don’t work for me.I am king of ashanmed of myself doing that stuff.
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Sam W
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Re: Masturbating

Unread post by Sam W »

Hi Jaxiejaxie,

Can you clarify your age for me? Because in your profile it says you're 13.
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