Masturbating
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Masturbating
Hi, this is kinda embarrassing but whatever. I'm 13 y/o and I masturbate. I've only ever rubbed myself, but I don't like it anymore. I don't want to stick anything up there, not even my fingers, and I don't like using showerheads. I don't want to stop though, so I'm not sure what to use. Using a vibrator is impossible (won't be able to get one), but I still want to masturbate. Anyone have any advice?
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Re: Masturbating
Hi
Masturbation is not something we need to be ashamed about! It's a perfectly normal thing for people of all genders and ages to be doing.
Everyone masturbates differently, and in the end it's about what feels good for you and your body, so experimenting to find what we like is the only way any of us can work out what works for us. It sounds like you've already started figuring some of your preferences out!
You might like to think about pleasure more broadly, and this article gives a bit more insight on masturbation.
Masturbation is not something we need to be ashamed about! It's a perfectly normal thing for people of all genders and ages to be doing.
Everyone masturbates differently, and in the end it's about what feels good for you and your body, so experimenting to find what we like is the only way any of us can work out what works for us. It sounds like you've already started figuring some of your preferences out!
You might like to think about pleasure more broadly, and this article gives a bit more insight on masturbation.
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Re: Masturbating
Hi XxDranxX,
In addition to the solid advice Kat J gave, I also want to toss you this link: D.I.Y. Sex Toys: Self-Love Edition . There are a few ideas in there that you may find useful.
In addition to the solid advice Kat J gave, I also want to toss you this link: D.I.Y. Sex Toys: Self-Love Edition . There are a few ideas in there that you may find useful.
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Re: Masturbating and how to buy
Hi I’m Megan and I’m 12 years old I have a few quensions about it.I have masturbated a few times I kind ok under stand about it but i would like to try a vibrator there is lots of reasons and I’m scared of my mom knowing about me masturbating.And I have watched porn which I am not proud of my self watching I don’t think my mom would be.And I’ve tried things but they don’t work for me.I am king of ashanmed of myself doing that stuff.
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Re: Masturbating
Hi Jaxiejaxie,
Can you clarify your age for me? Because in your profile it says you're 13.
Can you clarify your age for me? Because in your profile it says you're 13.
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