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KMann123
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Pain

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I have noticed recently that whenever I insert something into my vagina it’s really painful and pretty much wont go in. I have no problem with a tampon or one finger, but anything with more girth than that pretty much wont go in at all. Such as sex toys or 2/3 fingers. It’s making me panic bevause i have just recently got a boyfriend and although I’ve never had sex I’m almost certain it’s not going to go in and just cause me pain and embrassment. Is this normal? Will it be easier with an actual penis? Should I go to the doctors. Any advice is greatly received. Thanks
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Re: Pain

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Has it always felt this way for you? Are you having pain at any other times, or just when you try to insert something?

Also, when you are trying to insert something larger than a finger or tampon, are you using lubricant? Are you sexually excited at the time you're trying?
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