pain down there when i read about sex/also where is the clit

[rippledwater]

this doesn’t happen often or every time but every now and then when I read smut, I get pain down there (not even sure where exactly). im asexual so I don’t get horny often (though I don’t know if what I’m feeling is horniess at all) so I’m confused. is this normal? It goes away after I stop reading about it and its doesn’t happen everytime. Also slightly off topic but where do I even find my clit? I genuinely feel disconnected from my peers and my body at times because I habe no clue where to even start. It’s likely cause I’m asexual and have never masturbated (not for lack of trying, but I don’t even know where it is ) Sorry for being all over the place. Thank you!!!