I got turned down
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Paul
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I got turned down
I messaged a girl and asked her if she wanted to hookup and she turned me down. I am having a hard processing this.
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Sam W
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Re: I got turned down
Hi Paul,
Rejection can definitely sting. Can I ask what, specifically, you're having a hard time processing?
Rejection can definitely sting. Can I ask what, specifically, you're having a hard time processing?
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
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Paul
- not a newbie
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- Location: North America
Re: I got turned down
I just was hurt that she turned me down because she said I had no experience.Sam W wrote:Hi Paul,
Rejection can definitely sting. Can I ask what, specifically, you're having a hard time processing?
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Sam W
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- Location: Coast
Re: I got turned down
Ouch, that can certainly sting. It may help to keep in mind that someone who would hold your lack of experience against you or act weird about it is not someone who's like to be a great partner for you in the first place.
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.